The Mary Montague Private Members Association is a private association founded and governed solely by Mary Montague. Membership is a privilege granted at the founder's sole discretion.
The association operates as a private members association. All exchanges within the association are private member arrangements governed by this agreement. Membership is open to individuals aged 24 and over only.
The association exists to cultivate honourable masculine sexuality, restoring in men the capacity for protection, courage, accountability, and legacy, through a sovereign and private initiatory process that begins through desire and proceeds through discipline and radical self-knowledge.
All members uphold the following without exception: Honour — his word is his bond. Mutual respect — all parties treated with dignity at all times. Transparency — no deception, concealment, or misrepresentation. Accountability — full ownership of conduct and obligations. Responsibility — awareness of impact beyond themself. Legacy — present in service of who they are becoming.
Breach of this code is grounds for suspension or immediate termination at the founder's sole discretion.
Privacy — no recording, screenshotting, or sharing of any content, communications, or sessions within the association, by any means, is permitted without the founder's explicit written consent. Breach of this clause constitutes grounds for immediate termination and may result in legal action.
All activities, content, communications, and arrangements within the association are strictly private and confidential. This obligation is binding during membership and continues indefinitely after membership concludes for any reason.
Mirror dues are monthly and processed via the association's designated payment platform. Afternoon contributions are agreed privately and payable prior to the session. Dynamic terms are agreed at time of invitation. All contributions are non-refundable once access or a session has been granted, save at the founder's sole discretion.
The Afternoon requires a minimum of twenty-four hours notice to cancel or reschedule. Cancellation with less than twenty-four hours notice results in forfeiture of the full contribution. The founder will offer one opportunity to reschedule where adequate notice is given.
The member may withdraw at any time by written notice via Signal or email. Confidentiality obligations continue in full. For serious breaches including deception, harassment, or breach of confidentiality, termination is immediate and without notice. The founder's decision is final.
Personal data is processed in accordance with UK GDPR and the Data Protection Act 2018, for the purpose of administering membership only. By accepting membership the member consents to receiving communications from the association via email and designated private channels. The member's email address will be added to the association's private email list, through which occasional communications, updates, and transmissions from the founder may be sent. The member may request removal from this list at any time by contacting marymontaguelondon@proton.me.
The association does not provide medical, therapeutic, legal, or financial advice. Participation is undertaken entirely at the member's own volition and responsibility. The founder accepts no liability for decisions or actions taken by the member arising from his participation.
By responding via Signal with the word "Agreed," the member confirms he has read and understood this agreement and enters membership freely and voluntarily. This Signal message constitutes his acceptance and is retained as a record of consent.
This privacy policy explains how the Mary Montague Private Members Association handles your personal data. Your privacy is a founding value of this association. This policy complies with the UK General Data Protection Regulation (UK GDPR) and the Data Protection Act 2018.
Contact: marymontaguelondon@proton.meWe collect only what is necessary: your full name, Signal username and/or email address, your application voice note, membership and payment records, communications relevant to your membership, and social media handles including LinkedIn where provided. We do not collect sensitive personal data unless you disclose it voluntarily, in which case it is treated with the highest confidentiality and never shared.
Your data is used solely to administer your membership, communicate with you, process contributions, and maintain secure membership records. It is never used for marketing, sold to third parties, or shared with other members.
Membership records are stored on Proton Drive — end-to-end encrypted, accessible only to the founder. Application voice notes are deleted following the membership decision. We do not use unsecured cloud storage or third-party marketing platforms.
Active membership records are held for the duration of your membership and for one year following its conclusion. Data may be deleted sooner upon written request to marymontaguelondon@proton.me.
Your data is never sold or shared for commercial purposes. It may be processed by our payment platform (Whop), operating under their own privacy policies.
Under UK GDPR you have the right to access, correct, delete, restrict, or port your personal data. To exercise any right, contact marymontaguelondon@proton.me. We will respond within one calendar month.
This policy may be updated at any time. Material changes will be communicated to members. The current version is available on request.
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